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Monday, November 23, 2015

How to Attain Most Attractive Salary in your Career (Mix)

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Think in terms of the guy who is willing to pay top dollar for the best guy. In order to attract the most attractive salary in any career you must groom yourself to be the most attractive candidate for the job.  Be handsome or beautiful, have the most training, get the highest education in that career and most of all be the best person for the job. In order to do that you must know your competition and what they are.
Negotiation for the most attractive salary is a attainable skill. You need to know what to ask for without asking for too much that you will no longer be considered for the job. One never wants to hear that the company can’t afford me and then meanwhile you have nothing. Use yourself as a commode if you have too. Bargain yourself between two possible companies to work for and let them battle it out for your services while the salary goes up and up. Knowledge is always power and the more knowledgeable you are about the companies you choose to work for, the more reasonable figure of money you will know you can negotiate for. Negotiation is part of the job hunting process, and if you are determined to get the best offer possible, you really need to learn a lot about the people granting salaries too.
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The art of negotiating salaries is to have a strategy. Let them know as much as you can about you and make them like and want you so delay salary and benefit negotiations for as long as possible. They are only human. People are weak and will pay any price for something they really got to have. Make them really want you on their team then strike with monetary numbers.
Know the right time to accept an offer. If you accept too soon there is no room for further negotiation. If you take too much time to accept the employer will think you are not interested and will move onto another candidate. We have a population explosion and there are many people out there all looking for that best job. Do not be smug.  Thank the employer for the offer and express your strong interest and enthusiasm for the job. But state that you’ll need time to evaluate the entire compensation package. Most employers are willing to give you a fair enough time to review. Being too anxious might give a prospective employer doubts about you already.
Research everything to get that knowledge and feel for the company even before you enter any corporate door.  The greatest tool in any negotiation is information. The more you know about the company the less they have to teach you about their place and they will like that. Learn about the geographic, economic, industry, and company-specific factors about the company that might affect the given salary. The most attractive salary is always attainable. Set your own bar for it.

Sunday, November 22, 2015

How to get Organic Traffic for a Website? ( Others)
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So you have that website and for a while there you were happy to just have anyone go to it for whatever reason. Now you want more traffic and you need to figure out how to get people interested in your site. One of the most important ways is to make sure you have a great keyword that describes what you do on that site of yours. A good keyword will naturally and organically direct everyone to you in any search engine.
Have you heard of a forum? Get that group going to spread the word about your Website.  Discussion groups are always good and can even create a type of word of mouth free advertising. But don’t lie. Don’t post a phone number that doesn’t work or say you are from say New York City when you are really from a foreign country. Most of all do not take things like money from faithful followers of your site for something like a Premium Status fee and never grant it to a follower. Good faith is important for trust and will increase followers. Soon there   will   be other Websites using your name in the keyword to simply warn people about what a fraud you really are.
Start a niche group on places like Facebook.  Social networking is a real quick way to spread the word and you want your words to be spread throughout everyone’s friends there. In the niche be sure to present your site in the most easy and appealing way. You don’t want the Facebook people to turn against you either.
Related imageWrite a blog about your site and submit it to Stumble Upon for promotion purposes. Promote your blogposts to your e-mail list. A link or two back to your site can considerably increase traffic, sales or focus.
If you mention an influencer in your blog or site also mention them in your tweets. Just a name thrown around here or there can also attract new followers.
Build connections with others in your niche. Building personal relationships with others in your same fields is always important. Know your competitor’s and it will result in other organic inbound links and referral traffic to your site.  
Get on You Tube that has become larger and larger for every type of promotion. It is the best of all social media sites because you can post mini commercials of your business
Make yourself known. Become a member of Industry Facebook and LinkedIn Groups.  Write a good description of yourself and proudly talk about your site and your passion for what it brings to the world.
Respond to your comment section and keep the people who are already visiting your site happy. Apologize for any mis-communication. If there was confusion as to where funds were sent or any problem, offer your faithful followers a bonus to keep friendships good. Even on websites, reputation in everything and good faith is important in any business.

Saturday, November 21, 2015

Related imagePeople do not wait to have children until they are married anymore. There are times that men do not even know that they have fathered a child. Many women are making that all too important parenting decision alone since women are more independent than ever now. Women are making good incomes and can even support a family on their own but the question always remains, Does a family need a father present?

There is also women having a child and putting the child up for adoption without the father’s permission or knowledge of the child. Where are the father’s rights? Are they even being considered? The issue of father’s rights need to be more clearly defined in the courts. Men are more and more these days having to fight for custody of their children. A famous case is the Sofia Vergara vs. Nick Loeb case where he is fighting for custody of their two fertilized embryo girls to father. In other cases pregnant women are secretly having babies with their ex boyfriends and not even telling them of their pregnancy.  It is an upward battle for men   to navigate the courts to win their children back.

Related image What was love turns to hate with the men referring to the women they formerly loved and made love to as the egg donor now. Bitterness and hate has taken over the situation. In this country we have a Responsible Father Registry taking place in 25 states.  It is a place where unwed dads can sign up to find out if their child has been put up for adoption without their knowledge.  Very few people even know about the list. In South Carolina alone 30,000 children were born out of wedlock and less than 300 men in that state signed up.  The problem is that if you do not sign up, it is very possible that you can lose your  parental rights.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

It can be used by lawyers representing the adoptive parents saying that the biological father doesn’t care for the child because he did not sign onto the list.  They use it as an excuse to go forward free and clear with the adoption.  Now he must contest the adoption in the courts. In many cases, without signing up in the registry, fathers wouldn’t even know about the adoption. We are entering the season of thankfulness and children happy during the Christmas holidays. For some men, having their babies they didn’t even know they had being adopted is a financial blessing they don’t have to worry about. For other men, it is an opportunity for family lost forever. Father’s rights matter. Being informed about the registry is even more important no matter what you decide to do with the little blessings of children that have been granted to you. 

Friday, November 20, 2015

Increasing Difficulties for Muslims in France (Others)

Many years ago there were French people in France and the Muslim people resided in the Middle East. Travel was difficult and journeys to Europe were nearly impossible. Cultures did not clash then. You believed in what you believed in and so did many of your neighbors believed in the same ethics and religions. There wasn’t much to clash about then and it was a more peaceful world religion wise. Now there are approximately 3.5 to 5 million Muslims living in France. Only 2 million Muslims have French citizenship and the new age Muslim is one that has militant beliefs and are not a peaceful people that simply worships their God. They wish to kill anyone who is not a Muslim. Yes, times have changed.

Related imageThe question that should be asked is if it is increasingly difficult for French people to live in France? They just had the worst terrorism act in France performed by militant Muslims killing the most people on French soil since World War ll. So, yes, now it should be increasingly difficult for Muslims in France.  The French President just declared it an act of war against militant Muslims. It is not a good time or safe time for anyone to be in fun   loving France these days.  Yet the French law wishes to be fair to all who wish to reside in France. The French law forbids distinguishing residents or citizens according to religion.  Muslims are settled throughout   the country, but there are concentrated communities in the Ile-de-France (35%), Provence-Alps Cotes D’Azur (20%), Rhone-Alpes  (15%) and the Nord-Pas-de-Calais (10%).

Another increasing difficulty for Muslims in France is the problem that they do not contribute much to the French economy. They are a liability to the land. French Muslims are more likely to be unemployed than the rest of the population. According to the data from the National Institute for Statistics and Economic Studies, the French Muslims have a hard time finding and keeping long term full time jobs. Taking time out many times a day from work to pray on their prayer rug is not good for a working environment. The unemployment rate of foreigners living in France to Frenchmen is doubled at 14%. Additionally, in comparison to a 5% overall unemployment rate for people of French origin, nearly 27% of university graduates with North African backgrounds are unemployed. So, why should a Muslim even want to live in France?

Muslim families are large since they do not believe in birth control. It is not uncommon for a Muslim family to contain 8 or 9 children while the parents are unemployed causing a drain on the welfare services of the taxpaying citizen who perhaps have only one child. You can see how resentment can occur on both sides. The French traditionally have been known for their kings and queens and opulent life style filled with entertainment, pate, wine, chocolate and pastry indulgent of any kind. Muslims believe in covering their women, little opulence constant prayer discrimination of women and anyone who does not believe in their beliefs or their God.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

World Health Organization and its efforts in Kenya (Health)

Kenya has serious health problems for most of its citizens. The World Health Organization is offering much of its efforts to helping the people of Kenya in their health needs.  Kenya is suffering from widespread rising in numbers of deaths from non communicable diseases (NCD’s). There are increasing deaths in Kenya from heart disease, cancer, diabetes, and chronic respiratory disease. These diseases account for 27%  deaths of Kenyans between the ages of 30 and 70. That means that 370,000 people die each year from these diseases. It is assaulting the poorest people trapped in poverty. All these sick people on the brink of death reduces productivity in Kenya. No one wants to work if they are sick. If the people of Kenya do not work there is no economic growth in the country. Disease makes everyone and everything suffer.

Related imageThe World Health Organization is taking notice of the deep problems in Kenya and is trying to help by setting up goals for the country, improving health centers, trying to educate the people to lead healthier lives and mapping the epidemic to track any progress or downfalls in the effort to reduce these diseases in Kenya. All the things killing the Kenyan people are preventable. The people need to live better and want to take care of their health. The people are exposed to too much tobacco use, they  are not physically active enough, they eat unhealthy diets and they indulge in alcohol abuse.  So smoke, don’t exercise, eat junk food and drink booze and yes you will probably die young.

The health care budget in Kenya is spent on treating all the diseases that KENYAN’S BRING ON THEMSELVES by choosing to live in bad health practices.  The Hospitals have to deal with 50% of inpatient admissions from these diseases and 50% of the deaths at hospitals are from these diseases. The Ministry of Health and the World Health Organization can not do much if the people of Kenya do not wish to cooperate and wish to live healthier lifestyles. They do not want to farm or eat fresh vegetables they prefer junk food. They do not wish to preserve healthy fresh water they prefer to drink beer and alcoholic beverages. They have no interest in breathing fresh air, they prefer smoking cigarettes and cigars. They do not wish to exercise daily. A country of people needs to want to get better if they are ever going to get better.

The great levels of illness and death associated with diseases has meant that the Kenyan government has prioritized disease prevention and control in its National Medium Term Plan (MTPll) set for the years 2014-2018. They have the National Health Strategic Health Plan (KNSSP) also funded from 2014-2018. Then there is the recently launched The United Nations Development Assisted Framework (UNDAF) for Kenya and the third generation Kenyan WHO Country Cooperation Strategy   for the years 2014-2019.  All programs endorsed by the World Health Organization in its efforts to help Kenya. 

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Public Awareness about Natural Disaster like Flood and Earthquake (Education)
There are many International and local societies whose main job is to protect people from natural disasters such as floods and earthquakes. They are funded by governments as well as from donations from people who care. They are: CBDM/CBDRR Community Based Disaster Management/Community –Based Disaster Risk Reduction
                                                   CBHFA Community-Based Health and First Aid
                                                  DRR Disaster Risk Reduction
                                                  IFRC International Federation of the Red Cross
                                                  ISDR International Strategy for Disaster Reduction
                                                  NGO Non-Governmental Organization
                                                  UNISDR United Nations International Strategy for Disaster Reduction
                                                  UNDP United Nations Development Programme
                                                  VCA Vulnerability and Capacity Assessment
All of these disaster relief societies have a long reputation for educating communities on disaster risks. Most of it is done for children and in schools. For adults there is a document called Hyogo Framework for Action that is a global blueprint for disaster risk reduction efforts. It is designed to be a help guide for planning for public awareness among adults to produce highly successful outcomes when faced with a sudden crisis or potential disaster cause by nature. These guides and organizations are needed to provide education and help to people that will naturally run into chaos. Extra calmness and viable solutions must be implemented immediately when faced with a disaster in order to save lives.

Related imageAny amount of information given to the public is important in a community because we are talking about what to do when faced with many hazards. Hazards are earthquakes, floods, fire, heatwave, drought, tornado, lightning, volcano, avalanche, landslide, hurricane, cyclone, typhoon, terrorism, food shortage, power shortage, and water shortage. All   these types of changes in our lifestyles need to be dealt with in a peaceful and organized way to avoid chaos.

All of these hazards can involve death, injury, loss of shelter, loss of community or of employment. Remember that a disaster is when your community has extreme dysfunction when there is widespread human loss, environmental loss or economic loss. We need outside international organizations to come in and help when we are so overwhelmed by these natural forces that we are no longer able to cope, to pick up and restore goods and vitally need services. Earthquakes are listed at the highest risk level because there is really no way to prevent it from happening. Scientists can tell us where earthquakes are likely to occur but eventually they are unavoidable. The only sure way to be safe from an earthquake is to not live in a earthquake region.

We must all be the target for public awareness for any flood or earthquake so that we will know what to do if we are caught up in a disaster. Education is key and charity is essential. Governments can spend money on warning systems so people can find adequate shelters from unexpected storms or natural disasters. Most importantly people need to be generous and try to save each and every person who is in possible danger for the sake of humanity and justice.

Cambodia as a Tourist Destination and Attractions (Entertainment)

There are many places of interest to go to in Cambodia like Siem Reap, Phnom Penh, Sihanouk Provence, Battambang, and Ream National Park.  Some favorite attractions are Angkor Wat, Angkor Thom, Royal Palace, Banteay Srei   and Bayon. If you like ancient temples you will like visiting Cambodia which is located in the mainland of Southeast Asia.  Just looking at the giant roots of ancient trees is amazing with Temples buried in the jungle. The people of the Khmer civilization are friendly everywhere you move in the country.

Related imageThe ancient Temples are remaining evidence of the Angkor Empire that existed between the 9th and 13th centuries. It was a magnificent empire erected by Kings of that era.  Every year the country is transformed in a nature cycle, which is unique to Cambodia. The flow of the Mekong River swells until it forces the Tonle Sap to reverse its course, pushing up stream from the ancient capital. Every year the reversal of the river is celebrated with the country’s water festival in November that is well worth being there to see.

If you simply wish to relax, Sihanoukville Beach has beautiful white sand and the warm Gulf of Thailand waters with little waves in a peaceful atmosphere. If you saw the movie Tomb Raider starring Angelina Jolie in the role as Laura Croft, you will see her swinging through the ancient Temples of Cambodia where the film was shot. Siem Reap is still a town crawling with tourists since the film was released years ago. It is the town closest to a vast complex of ancient Hindu/Buddhist Temples and has become a tourist site with 127 hotels nearby from economy to ultra- luxury   amenities.
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People visit Angkur Wat simply to see the sunrise that is not a simple thing to do. In Siem Reap many tourists line up at 5:30 in the morning to see nature’s beauty of the sun rising to yet another beautiful day in Cambodia. You just have to know how to beat the crowds and where to sit for the best view. A hint is to get off the main walkway and sit on the steps of the outpost buildings. Angkur Wat was built over the course of thirty years in the 1100’s as a home for King Surayavarman ll after his death. The site was unknown and undiscovered until France colonized Cambodia in the mid 1800’s.  They uncovered in the middle of the jungle that was somewhat preserved was what is considered now one of the Wonders of The World.
A good tour guide will take you to see the amazing walls depicting the many levels of heaven and hell. There are about 1,800 dancing maidens carved into stone. If you actually visit this site be careful of the many wild monkeys swarming the place freely. They will grab books and just about anything out of your hands and destroy it. Don’t even try to scare them away, they will come after you!      

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Show solidarity With the Victims of Paris (Other)

Friday the 13 is known for bad luck but what just happened to the poor innocent citizens in Paris was a true tragedy and the western world is with those people in mourning. ISIS just got crossed by our black cat Mr. Obama who can take credit for the drone strike who just killed an ISIS murderer who beheaded journalists in the Middle East. What just happened to the innocent people of France   is just evidence of two different cultures clashing. I read the book called Standing Alone written by a Muslim feminist who described her struggles with the very different cultures clashing in one world.
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Could there even be a feminist liberal Muslim alive? Only in a place like Paris where there are many different kinds of people living together these days. All these attacks are being done by extremist Muslims but where are the Moderate Muslims anymore? Political   Prisioners held in Saudi Arabia will tell you that the Moderate Muslims are all in jail now. Extremism was born in Saudi Arabia and has exploded in Paris on innocent people watching a game, having dinner and attending a concert met with AK-47’s, 7 Suicide Bombers and a blood bath of random bullets in every direction just to disturb the western way of peaceful fun life in Paris.

Related imageAstra Nomani is the author of the book who is living proof of the clash between the Western and Middle Eastern world. In so many Muslim countries there is a law of oppression for its people. The life of a women living in India in Pakistan is a living prison sentence according to western standards and would never be tolerated. If a woman has a boyfriend in Pakistan and gets pregnant as a unwed mother, the man is free to leave her and she who is left with the evidence of the crime of having sex is left with a terrible life.  ISIS men will be head people for religious reasons and wipe the floor with the blood of their victims with their prayer rugs   as if they receive Devine ordination for what they did. In the west, they are considered cold blooded murderers praying to a person in a story that they have never met in the flesh.

Religions have a way of taking something horrific and making it sacred to some. ISIS believes that this most recent tragedy in Paris of 150 innocent people killed is an act of justice and religious sacrifice to their God. According to the laws of ISIS and the laws of Pakistan the pregnant woman is a criminal. Why should a woman receive less inheritance in Pakistan than a man or her brother? Why shouldn’t a woman in Pakistan have the right to even say if she wants to have sex or not? Why is it a radical idea for a woman to have an orgasm?  Will the blood bath in Paris somehow change the prejudice of women and people in general in Paris?


Saturday, November 14, 2015

France and its Culture, People and Lifestyle (Mix)

Related imageFrance has become a victim to the Great Migration from the Middle East and is now an old country filled with many traditions and customs that go back many centuries that is now becoming a country that is just a potpourri of many religions, many races. Many different religions and political thoughts with no real sense of who exactly they are anymore. Last night suicide bombing terrorists simply entered the center of Paris and decided to randomly shoot to kill hundreds of innocent people just out and about for a dinner, or soccer game or rock concert normal entertainment for a Friday night. The radicals then blew themselves up.

There is no such thing as a typical person in France anymore. The population now encompasses people from all over the globe. Living among the French can become a traumatic experience and foreigners are often shocked by French attitudes. A newcomer needs to find out where he fits in in terms of class and status. The classes can range from the aristocracy and upper class bourgeoisie   to the workers and peasantry. The French classism is based on birthright. Wealth or money does not buy status.  There is a huge working class difference between the rich and the poor. The wealthy do not boast about their wealth but they live in the best places and find the subject of money distasteful.

The French are renowned for their insularity and cannot stand foreigners. The French hate each other. Most hate people who live in Paris and Parisian’s   believe that anyone who doesn’t live in Paris is a peasant and beneath contempt. The French know a lot about alcohol and are experts at drinking a lot of it. They love a stiff drink. The people love to take to the streets and protest about just about anything. Civil disobedience is a national sport and is the people’s way of enforcing their democracy.  Observing senseless edicts like motoring laws, prohibitive signs such as no parking, no smoking, no dogs  etc. can be considered trivial rules meant to be broken or observed whenever you are in the mood to be civil obedient.  
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The people of France love to complain about their political leaders and regard prostitutes as more trustworthy and working hard people than their elected leaders who are frequent customers of prostitutes anyway. The French through Jean Monnet created the RU European Union and believe that it is a great institution although they are hostile to Turkey’s accession.  They are also adamant that the British should never be allowed to join. So not exactly an equality for all mentality in France, just the countries they want to allow into their club house.

French history is littered with delusions of grandeur. They are proud of their famous dictators like Charlemagne, Napoleon and de Gaulle. Right now they seem to be the targets for terrorists whom are determined to wipe off the face of the earth anyone who disagrees with their religious beliefs.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              

Friday, November 13, 2015

10 Best Singers in your Country (Entertainment)

It is hard to determine what famous person is the best at any skill or talent since being the best is all based on individual’s personal opinions and we all know that opinions can vary. So, does best mean the one who made the most money? Recorded the most records? Sings the most notes? Or Just sounds good to me and I don’t care if you ever heard of them. Some singers can answer yes to all these questions and to me that is the criteria that makes them the best singers in America living or dead!
1.       Michael Jackson was the number one best singer in America because he could do it all. His vocal range was a four octave tenor. He had an amazing vibrato and sang across just about any genre of music. He was a fantastic dancer as well.

2.       Freddie Mercury was   the lead singer of the rock group called Queen. He made it a unique popular band because of his many harmonies and vocal technique. He composed one of the first successful rock operas. No one has ever been able to duplicate his style at composing.

3.       Elvis Presley is the best because of his timeless interpretation of the lyrics in all his songs. He had a sexy smooth style that still makes you stop and listen. He was a very attractive man and did sexy moves in his dancing and singing and made movies too.

4.       Robert Plant is the greatest rock singer ever.  He was the lead vocalist of the great rock group called Led Zeppelin. He is responsible for some of the best classic rock songs ever recorded. He has to be remembered for his originality in music.

5.       Whitney Houston was the singer who rose out of the gospel church music to be one of the greatest popular divas ever. She could hold a note and take that note to a unique stylistic   vocal range that can   compare  to   no other singer.. She also performed in a few dramatic movies.

6.       Paul McCartney is the bass player, singer and songwriter for the trend setting band called The Beatles. He later also formed the band called Wings that had his wife as a band member. He got knighted by the Queen of England for his achievements.
7.       John Lennon was also a band member of the popular group called The Beatles. He was the other half of the songwriting duo of the Beatles. He was known for his loving and peaceful messages in all his lyrics.
8.       Frank Sinatra was a pure singer who did not play any other instruments. His voice was an instrument that told a story every time he sang. His vocals are timeless and comforting. There was a beauty in his breathing technique that made every line he sang into a smoothness no one else can duplicate.

9.       Mariah Carey is a pop diva who is as pretty as her voice. She also has a 4 octave range capable of hitting high notes that don’t appear on most musical instruments.

10.   Adele looked like the ordinary girl next door who sang sad songs but with a style that no one can duplicate.


Thursday, November 12, 2015

So many women still die in pregnancy in India. Why? (Health)
There are 56,000 women dying during childbirth each year in India. Meanwhile World Wide deaths of women during childbirth have dropped by 20%. Why is it so unsafe to give birth in India? 36 of the 40 most unsafe places to have a child are located in sub-Saharan Africa. I believe the only way to stop the deaths is to not get pregnant at all. Contraception should be widely available and used. More gains need to be made for women to have access to family planning centers that will offer services and advice to end a pregnancy or to give birth safely.

Related imageEvery day some 800 women die from pregnancy or childbirth from complications that are very often preventable, such as severe bleeding, infections, high blood pressure during pregnancy and unsafe abortion. For every woman who dies, a further 20 women suffer debilitating childbirth injuries such as obstetric fistulas. Why are these tragedies happening? They are happening because India is careless. There is little or no access to family planning. There is no government investing in health workers with midwifery skills. There is no ensuring access to emergency obstetric care when complications arise over and over again. Nothing is being learned from these tragedies and little is being spent to prevent the tragedies and to care for India’s women in general.

Interventions are needed not only to save lives but are also needed to support the healthy development of families. Millions of women in India are not respected and are being denied even the very basic of care during pregnancy. Even poor countries like Eritrea and Bangladesh have better treatment of their women during pregnancy. The women of India do not have to die during pregnancy if they receive even the minimal amount of care. There are two countries on the planet that treat their pregnant women the worse than anywhere else on earth. These two countries account for a full third of all maternal deaths. The two countries are India and Nigeria. India is the worst place on the planet with 56,000 deaths. Nigeria has 40,000 deaths.

When are the men of India going to take care of their women? They are quick to rape the women or just get them pregnant with no regard for their health or contraception.  India is over populated. There are too many children that are poor, mal-nourished, living in filth with no responsible parents to take care of them. Humans should know better and take care of their wives and children. Many of India’s girls never get to live to their full potential. They marry to young and get pregnant too early. Men should not be taking advantage sexually of India’s women. At least the use of more contraception would save some lives. As a result, 70,000 teenage girls die in pregnancy or childbirth each year, making maternal death the most common cause of death for girls between the ages of 15 and 19 years old. Men should be castrated to solve the problem in India! 

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

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Today is Veterans Day and for most people we wouldn’t even know it until we tried to do our banking and realized that the banks are closed for the holiday. How do you celebrate this kind of holiday? Years ago after World War II we saw all those happy pictures of people cheering in the streets that the war was over. We saw the pictures of handsome rugged soldiers in their custom tailored dress military uniforms returning from the war kissing the first girl they could find in a sexy photograph knowing that there will be a lot more loving to come because back then your girl waited for you to return from the war and was there just to love you and make all the babies she wanted. It was romantic with heros’  full of pride and velour.

Now our veterans look like broken men physically and mentally from too many tours overseas in a land that is still not a peaceful place at all. The guys are home in wheelchairs with half their limbs blown off. There is no girl to kiss them passionately because after 15 years of war in the Middle East she has moved on to a new guy with a bigger dick with all his arms and legs still attached. Today’s Veteran gets to see fliers in the mail urging people to donate their old wrecked cars to a Veteran. Today’s Veteran gets to see fellow Veterans exploited on an entertaining show called Dancing With The Stars where two seasons ago they exploited a previousely handsome Hispanic man who had his face terribly disfigured beyond recognition dancing his heart away. Last season they had another guy who lost his arm and leg on one side of his body and everyone applauded at his freak show of being able to lift a woman over his head with his one good arm without falling. This season the show featured a young guy who hog tied a terrorist on a train.  I guess Veterans are like side shows in a circus that we get to applaud occasionally now.

Every year we get to see the 911 Memorials where they read off the names of innocent people who lost their lives in New York City simply because they went to work that day. Now their 15 year old kids who never met them get to grieve over the parent they never met. We must never ever forget that our most recent Veterans saw this horror take place on our soil and VOLUNTEERED to fight for the pride and safety of all Americans.

Last night was yet another Republican Debate for an election that is still more than a year away.  Most of the candidates are already in elected positions concerned with the next step in their political career and not doing the job they have been elected to do now. They wear expensive suits and are all millionaires. In the opening questions they all said that they were opposed to raising the minimum wage to a mere $15 dollars an hour simply because “things would be imbalanced in the economy” for a while. Most of our Veterans are very poor since they spent the last 15 years of their lives, their most productive years, years that could have been spent getting a college education and a good job or becoming millionaires themselves fighting a war that no one won and returning home damaged goods.

To me Veterans Day is a sad day now. I don’t know how this country has managed to fail the brave VOLUNTEERS who ruined their mind and bodies for this country.  For how this country has failed the many women soldiers who get raped daily by fellow soldiers and are told to forget about their assaults by commanding officers. For how this country has failed the brave gay and lesbian soldiers who were told for years to “don’t ask or tell” about who they are.  Our military still receives most of our tax paying dollars and we are still considered the most powerful military country in the world. I guess we should still spend a moment thinking about those who donated their lives to protecting us so we could be upset for that moment we realize the bank is closed today, it will just have to wait till tomorrow.

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

How to advertise your website on line for free (others)

It doesn’t   matter how current your website is and how important a message you wish to say if no one knows it exists. Promoting your website is critical to its success. Promoting your website can be simple and can cost you nothing. With the right time and effort, you can find yourself attraction a slew of new clients you never thought would be interested in you. Search engines are important. The majority of traffic from the internet comes from search engines. Search engines should be the first place you go to in order to advertise your website. Ensure that search engines know you exist by submitting your link directly to them. Right now the search engines that generate the most traffic are Google, Yahoo and Bing,
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Next promote your website on online directories. They are like the modern day yellow pages.  They are where potential clients turn to for business solutions. It is important to ass your site to online directories because it greatly improves your sites SEO   by linking back to your website. When submitting your site be sure to include important details like your location and business category so that your web site will appear in sub-categories where new and potential clients can easily find you. Great directories to seek out are places like Yelp, Google Business, Yahoo Local, Trip Advisor, Yellow Pages, Super Pages, Angie’s List, Manta, DexKnows, BBB and Merchant Circles.

If your web site is promoting a restaurant or is about food in general, also contact some restaurant specific sites like Urban Spoon, Open Table Management Software or by adding the Open Table App to your web site for maximum exposure.

Another place to explore to advertise your web site on line for free is the social link building. Social sites are where many surfers spend the majority of their online time. Linking your content on popular social sites is a great way to put out business to an audience. You will be exposing your brand to a wider audience. Go to Facebook, YouTube, More than just a social network, YouTube is one of the most searched business directories in America.  There is also Google+, Pinterest, Foursquare, Polyvore, StumbleUpon, Reddit   and Dugo

You can also find a blogging platform by submitting articles about your website. It is a wonderful way to provide an info-commercial about your site. All you need to do is write an original article related to your business and submit it to these sites. Quite often they welcome a break from having to write something every day anyway. Keep your article informative but friendly too. Articles that sound genuinely well-intentioned and have a less aggressive marketing tone, will likely draw more interest to your site than self-promotion alone. Blogs and articles are also great for promoting link building for SEO benefits. Just enjoy going everywhere and anywhere to promote your site and spread the word. Even Twitter any developments or changes that might be of interest and sharing.      

Monday, November 9, 2015

How to live happy life with low income? (Mix)

There is a saying out there that says, “The Gods gave man an easy life, but man has complicated it by itching for luxuries.” Do we need the esteem of the wealthy and most respected? Should we aim to be part of the rich and influential citizens? Should we have the most expensive prostitute in town? What is it that we really need as humans? Can it be achieved with a low income? You have to decide firstly that you do not need much of anything to be happy. You must worship what little that still comes free. Love and be thankful for the warm sunrise, good clean water a refreshing breeze of fresh air and any edible fruits and vegetables you can find to eat and only then will you be happy with the little income you are able to procure.

Related imageFor most people their well- being is at the mercy of a good economy or not.  Most don’t know if they will ever acquire wealth and most give up even trying. You will be happy if you go through life expecting nothing. If you ever get something no matter how small, you will then grow to appreciate it greatly. Find someone who is willing to share their space with you even if they have little or nothing to share. When they sit on the chair you sit on the couch. When they are in bed you sit somewhere else so that you will never be in their way. Go out to eat every day and find   food that is still good that no one wants. You don’t need a refrigerator because you can’t afford to pay an electric bill to run the thing or pay for excess food to keep for another day. Go to sleep when the sun goes down and you will not need electrical lights either.

Related imageThere are many public places open where you can sit and stay for heat or air-conditioning in the winter or summer. Churches are always willing to give you free food or clothing. Shelters and gyms offer free showers. Recite poetry, sing or dance for money that people will just give you. The coins work well in laundromats where you can buy soap and clean your clothes. Most importantly be great full and happy for every little good that you may stumble upon. If you do not wish for much you will not need much and the weight of having to pay bills and support others will be lifted from your life. Your mental state is most important under any financial circumstance. Some of the wealthiest people feel like prisoners guarded behind their palaces and many servants and weighed down by the burden of wealth.

The worst part of having a low income is the uncertainty of your future. Can I survive on so little money? What if I get sick? Can I afford medication? Do I even care anymore? We do live in a world where money is more important than love.

Sunday, November 8, 2015

How to get a US bank account as a non-resident? (International)

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The United States have strict laws involving bank accounts in this country when it involves accounts for non-residents. There is a Customer Identification Program (CIP) that was established under the United States of America Patriot Act. The CIP rules require financial institutions to apply certain identity verification procedures when a customer opens a new account. The law applies to traditional types of accounts such as a checking, savings, certificate of deposit, as well as loans as well as other extensions of credit.How to get a US bank account as a non-resident? (International)
The United States have strict laws involving bank accounts in this country when it involves accounts for non-residents. There is a Customer Identification Program (CIP) that was established under the United States of America Patriot Act. The CIP rules require financial institutions to apply certain identity verification procedures when a customer opens a new account. The law applies to traditional types of accounts such as a checking, savings, certificate of deposit, as well as loans as well as other extensions of credit.
The customer identification requirements to open any account is to provide your name, date and place of birth, a residence address and mailing address if different. A post office box number is not acceptable. If the individual is a United States person, a Social Security number is required. If the individual is a non-United States person much more information is required. A minimum of one of the following identification things are required: A United States taxpayer identification number
                                    A Passport Number and Country of Issuance
                                    An   Alien Identification Card Number
                            A number and country of issuance of any other government-issued document evidencing nationality or residence bearing a photograph or similar safeguard.
If you have a current driver’s license a photograph is required. If you have a current armed forces identification a photograph is required. Each bank will have its own policy and procedures drafted to comply with the above named requirements and documents. Most banks choose to draft policies and procedures more strenuous than those required by law.
Some banks may also require: A secondary identification that does not include a credit or debit card
                                                      Proof of address such as a Utility Bill in your name or title, or a   lease to a property.                               
                                                      The Account Opening Process to be done in person and originals of documentation to be viewed by present bank employees.
                                                      If the account owner is a Non-United States person without a United States ITIN then then an Internal Revenue Service form W8-BEN will be required.
So, you see there are many requirements in order for a non-resident to open a bank account in the United States. An ITIN is used only for foreigners who wish to invest in United States real estate. An ITIN is an Individual Taxpayer Identification Number that is required to open a bank account in America. It is for people who are not a United States citizen and also do not live in the United States yet they intend to purchase real estate in the United States. You can get the identification number from the (IRS) Internal Revenue Service; the American tax department.
A real state owner will need to open a Bank account in the United States into which you will need to deposit the funds you will need to purchase the property and any income derived from the property such as rents. Before you can open a United States bank account you need to obtain an   ITIN   

Saturday, November 7, 2015

How Parents Need to Talk with their Kids About Sex (Mix)

Talking to your kids about safe sex can make everyone feel embarrassed but it is worth the effort and bother. Parents really can influence their kid’s sexual behavior for the better and protect them against unwanted pregnancies. If you are going to feel awkward and uncomfortable why not let it be among each other: Parents who discuss topics about reproductive health such as the use of condoms, birth control methods and the risks for sexually transmitted diseases influence their children to be more cautious than children who were not educated by their parents.
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Any difference can contribute especially in a country where teenagers are likely to be sexually   active. The message is that parents do matter and the messages they give their children matters. Parents are the very first influences in their young lives and they know their parents the best so why wouldn’t the kids trust the advice a parent gives them? Parents do not need to have a lot of technical or sophisticated information or knowledge about sex, but just having that discussion with them is important and shows that you care about every aspect of their young lives, the emotional as well as the physical health of them.

Girls can be more influenced by their parent more than boys in topics such as the use of condoms and contraceptives and other sexual health matters. Unfortunately the world still feels that any discussion about reproduction is the woman’s job. She is the one who must carry a child and go through all the physical and mood changes during the process.  To  many men, sex is still just a night of sexual pleasure and it is up to the woman’s job to take precautions against a possible unwanted birth of a child.  That is sad since it is a man’s joint responsibility for his sexual actions and the children he produces. Men need to care more!

Related imageParents want to protect their children so they would be more than likely to give emphasis on the negative consequences of sexual behavior. One of these consequences is the unwanted pregnancy. Meanwhile, the United States Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said that roughly 47 per cent of high school students have had sexual intercourse. Of these, 60 per cent said they used protection the last time they did it, while 14 per cent said they did not use any protection. Even just fourteen per cent is a problem for unwanted disease and pregnancy.

Prevention   of teenage pregnancies can be a winning battle and it can begin at home. Prevention programs often discuss specific protective factors based on skills, beliefs. Knowledge and attitudes concerning teen pregnancies. Topics that parents should be discussing with their children are HIV risk, personal principals regarding sexual activity and abstinence, perception of peer norms and behavior, the choice to have sex at all, the choice to refuse sex, the intent to use birth control among many other choices.

Friday, November 6, 2015

Japanese People and their Determination to Work (Mix)

When you talk about a specific group of people from a specific region like Japanese people, you need to overview the situation and the culture and ethics they live and are governed by and then you might be able to determine why they work hard. The entire Japanese culture centers on respect, pride and honor. Ethics like that do not come easily for anyone. You need to do something to take pride in. Respect needs to be earned and honor just comes with good ethics. All wonderful things to possess and to center your life by.  These things do occur in other cultures but they are magnified in the Japanese culture.
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As a result of these guidelines, Japanese workers will often have more pride in their work and more respect for their superiors. This also translates into those who are raised with Japanese cultural values are raised to have integrity. It becomes a better culturally enforced work ethic. The people care and don’t just spend time at work only working for a pay check at the end of the week.  They care about what they have produced or added to the company at the end of the week and then they humbly accept a fair wage for their extreme efforts. A work ethic means everything to the workspace. Pep talks are rarely needed.
In order to be a hard worker we need that determination to want to work. It must come from within that desire. We want integrity as part of our wholeness. How else do we become that team player doing all that can be done at work? That integrity must come independently from each and every worker.  It gives them the ability and confidence to be a leader. Where and how you are raised and the type of people that surround you determines your positive or negative attitude about everything you do.

Japanese people behave well and are well-cultured, hard –working and innovative. They are disciplined, patriotic and are very clean in appearance and in standards.  Given all these positive traits to walk around with, why wouldn’t you also be determined to work hard and well? It is also helpful that the Japanese education system is respected and students are focused at their studies and not disruptive. The work ethic begins as a child in school. With the introduction of Kanji in Japan, Japanese vocabulary expanded quite a bit due to the use of the Chinese pronunciations of the Kanji new words.

The main difference between a westerner worker and a Japanese worker is why they are working. People from other cultures other than Japanese work for selfish reasons. They are mainly working for their money, their promotions, their holidays and their weekends. Everything other than the job. A Japanese worker is motivated by thinking about the company, their colleagues and their responsibilities, all about doing a great job and living up to their both personal and professional expectations at the workplace.  

Thursday, November 5, 2015

Some Methods to increase Breast Size (Health)

Related imageThere are both natural methods and medical solutions to increase breast size in women. Natural methods are desired by women to increase their breast size to avoid the complications that might occur with a surgical procedure. Simply by eating certain natural and wholesome foods might succeed in achieving your goal. EAT ENOUGH ESTROGENIC FOODS
Estrogen is a potent female sex hormone and proper levels can lead to larger amounts of breast tissue in women. Excellent sources of natural estrogen are Pumpkin, garlic, red beans and split peas, soy foods, eggplant and squash. Keep away from carb rich foods like chips, crackers, white rice and baked goods that will diminish breast growth.
                  Eat more fresh fruits and vegetables
Fruits and vegetables not only provide potent antioxidants and also help build health tissue. Be sure to eat at least four servings a day and include strawberries and blueberries.
                 USE SOY PRODUCTS
Soy products are high in isoflavones that can help the body increase its own estrogen levels and promote breast growth. Soy products are also rich in protein and can help build and repair damaged tissues in the body.  Soy milk is available for purchase in a variety of flavors.
                 CONSUME HEALTY FATS
Eat more healthy fats to increase breast size. Monounsaturated fats are the best choice to increase breast size. Healthy fats are high in Omega 3 fatty acids and are beneficial for heart and brain health.  Try to add olive oil and avocado. Eat raw nuts. Add cold water fish to your diet.
                 USE HERBS
Use herbs to increase breast size. Fenugreek is a herb that has a substance in it called disogenin hat is a powerful aid in strengthening breast tissue.
Wild Yam is known for enhancing the female breast.
Fennel has been used by women for generations for its estrogen like compounds that can enhance breast size.
Anise Seed has many health benefits because it also has estrogen properties. These seeds are beneficial in stimulating lactation.  It can help in treating infertility and   improving the size and the appearance of the female breast.                                                 
Certain exercises are good for increasing the size of the breasts.  Yoga or Pilates   strengthen the core of your body and also enhances the chest muscles   under the breasts.  Push-ups help by keeping the back straight will boost the shape of the pectoral muscles. The breasts will also take on an improved firmness or perkiness. Use a chair lift to improve breast size. Back up to a stable chair, squat down with your feet slightly in front of your knees and reach back with your arms to grasp the arm rests or seat of the chair. Slowly lower your torso down without going past 90 degrees or elbow bend and then push your body up. This will tone and tighten your arms, chests and shoulders while enhancing the overall size and appearance of the breasts. Repeat 10 times and do two more sets of 10 after a break.                                                                                                                                            

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

How to convert military education to civilian education?  (Education)

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In America it is not only possible to get college credit for the courses you had taken during your time spent in the military you may also get college credit based on your time and experience spent in the military. This is important great news for all of the millions of returning veterans returning back from the 16 year war in the Middle East and for military personnel stationed all over the world who now needs to start a life here in America where college experience is all so important for most jobs now. Education is very important in this country.

The American Council on Education (ACE) works with people to review their military training and experience and recommend appropriate college credit for members of the Armed Forces.  The American Council on Education compiles the information in a document called the Joint Services Transcript (JST) that is used by the Army, Navy, Marine Corps and Coast Guard. The Joint Services Transcript is an academically accepted document to validate a service member’s military occupational experience and training along with the corresponding American Council on Education’s   college   credit recommendations. It is the military’s transcript however it is up to each college institution to decide what recommendations the American Council on Education will apply to their school’s standards since each college institution has different requirements for their major studies.

Some colleges will accept the recommendations modify or even reject the findings by the American Council on Education. Whether an academic institution accepts the credit recommendations depends on its policies and procedures for transfer credit, your program of study, and your degree requirements. Wouldn’t it be great if you were offered a college degree after spending your years of service in the military? It is easy to even just inquire. All enlisted. Officers and warrant officers, both active and veterans from all Army components, Coast Guard, Marine Corps and Navy can get their Joint Services Transcript by visiting the JST website. Air Force personnel should contact CCAF to receive transcripts. More than 2,300 American colleges and universities accepts and recognizes these transcripts from the Joint Services as official documentation of military training and experiences and applicable American Council on Education credit recommendations.

The American military experience is respected world- wide and we take pride in training other military forces of our allies as to how to run a safe and secure military operation. The American military educates the world. The procedure is simple. Have all your official transcripts from previous colleges and services branches sent to your new school of choice for evaluation, before you start taking any classes. Many students’ waste valuable time and money taking classes that are unnecessary duplications of previous courses because they signed up before their military and prior college transcripts were completely evaluated. So, be sure to discuss your unique situation with personnel in the college offices before you register for any costly courses. America is proud of their fine military active and veterans and are pleased to assist them in every way. .