Did you know that all humans
start life being female? Soon after in the womb we begin to be male or female,
Boy or girl doesn’t necessarily exist anymore. Years ago if a person with a
penis wanted to wear make-up and wanted to wear dresses he did it with a hairy
body and a cigar in a comedy sketch like Milton Berle did. But then singers like David Bowie and Boy
George became famous who at times wore full female make-up and it was all ok,
no comedy. Advances in the medical field and changes in public opinion are
creating all new kinds of people. Should applications for anything still say
male or female as a check off of identity? Today we don’t know what kind of
genitalia people have in their pants. Many don’t know the terminology used for
this new kind of sexual revolution. Human life is no longer simply male or
female.
The Emmy awarded journalist Katie
Couric is sharing a new documentary on gender identity that is worth watching
that is informative on where society is on the issue of who we are and who we
identify with. Now children who have penises are wearing dresses if they want
to and are undergoing name changes and are already planning future medical
services to change their gender that are widely available to all now. Years ago
if a guy was effeminate he became a fashion designer or a hairdresser. There
are no boundaries anymore. There is also a generational divide on this issue. We
all need to know the new vocabulary to understand the issues and then there
would not be so much fear out there. Fear is usually a result of ignorance.
With knowing about things, it is helpful to understand and accept.
We need to know all the biology
that is involved in gender. Sexual orientation is completely different from
gender identification. In simple terms, gender is who you go to bed as; sexual
orientation is who you go to bed with. We all start life as a girl. Men have
nipples that are completely useless. In the first trimester of life in the womb
gives the fetus a surge in testosterone that forms the gentiles. Depending on
the amount of testosterone received, a clitoris becomes a penis and ovaries
become testes. If things get interrupted a child can be born called intersex
where the child has both female and male genitalia. They can have sex characteristics
of both male and female. There is surgical intervention now for these babies of
which there are one out of every 2,000 babies born with this type of body.
These intersex children are
unique but now activists are questioning if the surgical intervention is
necessary to “normalize a baby’s appearance”. Should we be imposing a gender on
these kids or should we wait to see what gender they identify with? However,
people aren’t even simply a boy or girl now. A surge in testosterone can make a
female feel like a male. The biology is so much more important than just what
you are thinking who you are at this moment. There is a lot of support now with
gender clinics available now. Parents love their children unconditionally and
want to follow the instincts of their children. If a child with a penis wants
to wear dresses, parents now are buying them a closet of dresses. They would
rather have a child who is living openly and authentically than have the child
with feelings of suicide because they are transgender or gender non-conforming
people.
Parents are heterosexual and now
are open enough to do anything for their child to be happy and safe. There are
more transgender people now than ever simply because we have become a more tolerant
and accepting world. We need to learn
words like gender confirmation surgery for when the pronouns change from he to
she or from she to he. No one needs to
feel trapped in the wrong body any longer. We are living in a world now where
folks can live as who they are and not what they are. Now the issue of what bathrooms people use is
going to the Supreme Court since people are no longer simply male or female. The
gender revolution is here to stay. We need to see folks as people regardless of
their gender identification. The documentary airs February 6th on
the National Geographic Channel.
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