Many career driven women wait
till their 40’s to have a child. By then they are educated, certified as
something, has some money and hopefully a man who she wants his seed but we
don’t even really need him anymore; there are
donor catalogs to choose his genes from. There are still concerns for any woman age 40
having children for both them and the child’s
safety. Nationwide the number of children born to women age 45 and over
has more than tripled in the past two decades. The average age for first-time
pregnancy has also climbed in every state of the country. We can blame this
trend on the better opportunities that have opened up for women in the
workplace. Women are now staying in school and trying to get and are getting
that better job.
The biggest change has been in
the attitude of women about raising their children. Sure we would all like to
be home to see the baby’s first step or first words but losing a job and
pension and then having years later social security give you nothing for the
years you stayed home raising your own child
just is not worth it. Women have careers and now pursue them and no
longer give their career up. Waiting till you are 40 does have risks. One in 5
couples who are over 40 usually have to face infertility. For those who do have
a chance then they have to worry that one in
50 chance that the fetus will have a chromosome abnormality, translation
the kid can be retarded, slow whatever, just not normal.
For older women they can also
develop diabetes and high blood
pressure during pregnancy. Premature birth and or still birth is also a problem
for the older woman. But with advances in medicine, these problems are also
becoming manageable. The odds of conceiving are also manageable. The ways to conceive
doesn’t necessarily involve him anymore. Yes, all the fun isn’t necessary.
Besides sex there is insemination, invertor fertilization, frozen eggs or even
donor eggs. Assisted reproductive medicine has more than tripled in the past 2
decades. It can cost tens of thousands of dollars and is not always covered by
your insurance.
Despite all these ways to get
pregnant now the size of the American family is getting smaller.
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