As a attorney I wrote many wills for people. From my contacts with a few of these couples, I learned that for them the greatest joy was to be together, and what they did mattered little. They never grew weary of each other’s fellowship. Presently Americans are loosing their homes due to raging fires in the south and flooding in the east and everyone else are loosing the battle with keeping enough money in their checkbooks to pay their mortgages. Real serious problems but they haven’t found that the most important thing to cling to is each other especially when you loose other valuables.