“Do not be kind to men on a first date. Do not get naked until exclusivity.” I’m done with this bitch. It is very sad that the one thing that all of us is capable of doing, loving someone , has to be dictated by all these self proclaimed gurus. Leave love to our own hearts and feelings and do not dictate to us how to love. There are enough dictators at our jobs, politics, banks and everywhere else in our lives where we are totally controlled. Leave love to ourselves. We all need to be in control of our own feelings and hearts or we will not be able to be happy in any other aspect of our lives.