How Parents Need to Talk with their Kids About Sex (Mix)
Talking to your kids about safe
sex can make everyone feel embarrassed but it is worth the effort and bother. Parents
really can influence their kid’s sexual behavior for the better and protect
them against unwanted pregnancies. If you are going to feel awkward and
uncomfortable why not let it be among each other: Parents who discuss topics
about reproductive health such as the use of condoms, birth control methods and
the risks for sexually transmitted diseases influence their children to be more
cautious than children who were not educated by their parents.
Any difference can contribute
especially in a country where teenagers are likely to be sexually active. The message is that parents do matter
and the messages they give their children matters. Parents are the very first
influences in their young lives and they know their parents the best so why
wouldn’t the kids trust the advice a parent gives them? Parents do not need to
have a lot of technical or sophisticated information or knowledge about sex,
but just having that discussion with them is important and shows that you care
about every aspect of their young lives, the emotional as well as the physical
health of them.
Girls can be more influenced by
their parent more than boys in topics such as the use of condoms and contraceptives
and other sexual health matters. Unfortunately the world still feels that any
discussion about reproduction is the woman’s job. She is the one who must carry
a child and go through all the physical and mood changes during the process. To many
men, sex is still just a night of sexual pleasure and it is up to the woman’s
job to take precautions against a possible unwanted birth of a child. That is sad since it is a man’s joint
responsibility for his sexual actions and the children he produces. Men need to
care more!
Prevention of
teenage pregnancies can be a winning battle and it can begin at home.
Prevention programs often discuss specific protective factors based on skills,
beliefs. Knowledge and attitudes concerning teen pregnancies. Topics that
parents should be discussing with their children are HIV risk, personal
principals regarding sexual activity and abstinence, perception of peer norms
and behavior, the choice to have sex at all, the choice to refuse sex, the
intent to use birth control among many other choices.
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