It must be true. She must be
right. She saw all the necessary things for it to happen and thankfully she got
out of there before it happened to her. Sadly, I am talking about my daughter
who attends a well known college in the northeast working on a 5 year
combined BA and Master’s Program with two majors already earning a full
scholarship and making the Dean’s list every year of the 3 years she has been
in college. Yet I feel sad for her.
She has repeatedly expressed how
the male population of students are creepy. I know both males and females must
work very hard to maintain grades and actually learn the subjects that they
hope to be professionals at when they are done learning at colleges. Both
genders are stressed, over worked and need sex hopefully in a good relationship
with someone you love but good relationships take too much time that they do
not have. They are spending all their time striving and succeeding because for
most, tuition is way too high.
I saw it myself when I was
visiting her one weekend. On a Saturday or Sunday night the girls are walking
with shorts on and the highest heels their feet could handle. The boys are
already laughing way to loudly and most probably already drunk. They all meet
at various clubs, frat houses or parties and then I am not sure what happens. She
tells me the guys are in groups of about 5 and they take turns dancing with one
girl. Now dancing now is a guy bending a girl over and rubbing his penis into
her ass. Before you know it, it is happening to all the girls. These are strangers
to her and if she is also drunk enough and unable to
wiggle her way away from them, is being ganged raped somewhere. The colleges
rarely follows up on reports of rape. Breakfast is served till 4 in the
afternoon because most sleep their addictions off till then on Sunday.
My daughter is terrified of any
parties or even private events at college. She just turned 21 and has never had
a relationship with a college boy. She works as a supervisor in the cafeteria
overseeing breaks for the workers and finds the uneducated hard workers there
more interesting and nicer to her than any pompous college boy. She attends
school within walking distance of Harvard and MIT. An area of America where
some of America’s finest engineers and
business movers and shakers have attended school. I didn’t believe her until I
saw the movie and looked at the litigation.
Yes, rape is rampart on college
campuses. Some girls are coming out of the shadows having the courage to share
what happened to them telling us that schools are failing to protect their
students. A new film is taking certain institutions to task. One of the most
sensational accusations was to the 2013 Heisman Trophy winner Jamis Winston
from Florida State University. He is poised to be a first round pick in the
2015 NFL draft but there is a former student from FSU who is speaking out about
her college story of rape in the film called The Hunting Ground. Erica Kinsman
reports on what she claims he did to her. According to the movie only 26% of rape
reports lead to arrests. Here she is reporting that she was raped by a guy the
school is unbelievably proud of on the football field. A place where sports are
so big that some coaches get paid more money than the college president. Sports
is big money for some colleges.
The film uses first hand accounts from more than a dozen college
students. The film makers are seeking to expose what they say is a shocking
epidemic of violence and institutional cover-ups. Universities are protecting
their brand. Erica said that right after
she was raped she reported it to the Tallahassee Police Department and an
investigation was opened however Jamis was never charged. Willie Meggs a
Florida State Attorney said,” There was not sufficient evidence to charge Jamis
with a crime.” Erica found her being the target for slandering the campus hero.
She dropped out of college to get away from the gravity against her. Now, 2 years later she is telling
her story again in the movie.
No college campus is safe. Women
are faced with more questions rather than support. The girls are young and
scared and do not want anyone to know how they were sexually violated. They do
not want their parents to know. Only 20% of college rapes are reported to the
police. The Universities discourage the girls from going to the police. It is
the only crime where we blame the victim. Two girls filed a Title 9 Complaint
with the Department of Education. Their central argument is the university’s
handling of sexual assault allegations violated their civil right to education.
It is starting a national
movement. Currently there are 94 universities under Title 9 Investigation for mishandling
sexual assault claims. Some girls are going from sexual assault victims to
survivalists to now activists. A case shouldn’t be thrown out if a girl doesn’t
exactly remember what time the assault happened. Usually they are so drunk,
they don’t even realize what is happening till it is too late. The guys are
getting away with it and are doing it repeatedly. Ethics used to be assumed.
These boys need to learn respect and civility and have lost it all or was never
taught and they need to be brought up on charges and taught the most important
lesson. Humility.
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