It is Valentine’s Day so if you
haven’t done it go out and buy something nice for someone you love. If you
truly love someone you don’t need a special day to express your love for that
special person. You want to express your love each and every day for without
love, we are nothing. OK, I love my new car too and my favorite shirt and my
favorite TV show. Love is a word that
gets thrown around a lot but so what. There are far worse words being tossed
around too.
What is great about love is the
warm feeling it gives you inside. It also helps to be lucky enough to have
someone who wants to caress you. Hold your hand for no reason. Play with the short
hairs on your neck. Play with your earlobe or best of all that warm and
passionate kiss, Love your pets. Love your children. Other people’s pets or
kids. Just take a day to acknowledge anyone or anything that makes you feel
warm and fuzzy in some capacity.
The problem is that we are in a
global society where people have long distance relationships. Chat lines and Facebook
and all kinds of social media has also brought social relationships that often
do not offer the added much need dimension to a relationship which is the cuddling
or sensations of touch and smell. Most people are such germ phobic that they
avoid at all cost any type of touching or bodily contact. Hand shaking has been
replaced by fist touching or just a wave from a safe three feet away from
someone.
We live in such an impersonal
life now we need to request hugs. Some are even willing to pay a fee for a hug.
Really. 52% of people still think the best Valentines gift is flowers. Only 18%
of people like perfume as a gift. Giving or receiving. 16% of people like candy and only 8% like the
gift of Lingerie. Yeah, women don’t
dress up much for love anymore. If you are in need of a Valentine’s Day hug
well, it could be just a phone call away now. That is what I call a service
industry.
Most of the east is smothered in cold
hard packed snow this Valentine’s Day and most of us are spending our day
getting exhausted from digging out from the cold boulders. We are not exhausted
from long bouts of energy placed in the bedroom sharing bodily fluids. If you
have that special someone in your heart you expect and crave the forecast for America’s
lovers and soul mates of extra coziness, caressing and kisses, snuggling and
well frankly sex too.
What about all the lonely hearts
out there who order that table for one and spend the time staring at their
phone? A new industry has popped up just for you then. Trey are called
professional cuddles and they are earning a living. Really. The demand for
non-sexual touching is rising. Sigh! No pun intended there. The
“professionals” describe their business as holding people for extended
periods of time. .It starts standing up and then progresses to laying down. In
private sessions the professionals will hold you for 90 minutes continually.
I’m not sure if my wife would like if I hired someone to hold her for a while.
Being cuddled or touched brings
health benefits for everyone. Scientific studies have proven that your Cortisol
levels will go down as a result of hugging especially in stressful situations. When
people say, “Let me give you a hug to feel better.” They are no liars. Cortisol
is a steroid hormone produced by the
adrenal gland as a response to stress.
So help relieve someone’s stress today. At least give a hug. Touching is
fundamental to the currency of delight.
Be happy you can touch him or her. Do it tonight.
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