So it was Valentines Day. The one day on the calendar that tells us to think about our love life. All year long it is about obligations to school, job, family everything you are involved with. But February 14th each year is the day we pause and think of love. If you were lucky you held and at least hugged someone who loves you or you are lucky if you got a message as early as 4:30 in the morning from someone declaring their love for you in your computer. If you didn’t get either one, you might be considering a dating site.