
There is even a web site out there called Ashley Madison.com that urges people to cheat on their husbands or wives. Some people believe that this type of behavior actually helps marriages?? Women go to it because they don’t feel special anymore. They are so involved in the care of their children, household, and their paying jobs that at the end of the day they are exhausted but haven’t had excitement. They miss the heart beating from a relationship rather than the conversation of life’s challenges.
In the first hour women reported that they received about 100 contacts. Men are pigs. Then if they are courageous they can easily narrow it down to about 12 men of interest. I’m exhausted already just writing about this stuff. Of course her husband knows nothing about this. The women usually tell no one but the men will probably tell a buddy what he is up to. Women are embarrassed, men are boastful that is among other men. They don’t tell their wives anything.

What happened to the affairs with the soccer coach or the UPS guy or the mail man? You know, traditional affairs. Actually, an affair with someone in your community can be much more risky. Imagine your kids on the same sports teams as the person you are seeing in bed? You would have to be very good actors to remain anonymous.

Infidelity now affects one out of every three couples. People do not sign up for marriage to be unhappy. However, no one needs to be lied to. We don’t talk, we hide behind each other’s backs and we betray. That doesn’t serve anyone at the end of the day either. Even if you discussed your needs to your spouse, there is nothing more exciting than a new penny vs. the old nickel at home. The titillation of something new is enticing.
Then there is the concern and problem of STD’s, the sexually transmitted diseases we all have to be careful of. In a monogamous marriage many spouses do not even use protection anymore, they are clean and safe with each other and the sexual trust they vowed to have.
The Ashley Madison website boasts 12 Million members in 17 countries.
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