Is this acceptable now?

How are the way men treat women going to change when they learn everything bad from the movies we all watch? In the 50 Shades of Grey movies the rich guy is convincing the girl that she wants to be tied up and blindfolded and whipped with horse crops and at the end of it all, they get married and live happily ever after. Now guys are investing in bondage supplies for their next date.

In the movie called Love Actually today it would have to be called Love Inappropriately. In practically every scene it is men hitting on lower level women in the office. One stalker boss is standing in front of the house of the girl holding up a sign that says to me you are perfect and then she runs down the street and kisses him. Today most women would call the police on his stalker ways. The movies tell women what they want but women want it when they want it and not when he tells her she wants it!

Tom Cruise in the movie Jerry Maguire goes  un-invited into the home of the assistant he hired and has sex with her and then  says, I’ m not letting you get rid of me. It all looks adorable but if a guy tried that now he can get arrested. Too much too soon guys!

Snow White is the 10^th highest grossing film ever and that Disney story is about a Prince who kisses Snow White when she is out cold. Senator Al Frankin had to leave his high powered government position because he pretended to feel up a girl while she was sleeping. Times have changed guys! Did Al watch Snow White the movie too many times that made him think he was not doing anything wrong? I guess that stuff is cute from a Prince but not so good from Bill Cosby who drugged and assaulted his girls while sleeping.

John Cusack is adorable in all his movies even when he shows up at his ex-girlfriend’s house playing loudly from a boom box the song they used to have sex too. Is that harassment or adorable? So confusing since all guys learned how to behave from moves like these.

Everyone loves Rocky right? But his first date moves would be in the  ”me too” movement of revelations now. In the movie she says that she should go now and as she is heading for the door Rocky says don’t go and holds the door shut so she can’t leave on her own free will. Not so good guys.

William Hurt even threw a chair in to the window move in anger in the movie called Body Heat till she accepted his embrace and kisses. Romance through violence is not so good now guys. Weird stuff is even in Oscar nominated movies like the remake of Beauty and the Beast. That story is about a young country girl who is kidnapped by a ugly beast but since he turns into a Prince, I guess it is all just fine. Guys if you kidnap a girl, at the end of the day you are still a beast and never a Prince. Note to self!

The movie Phantom Thread is about a powerful older man who picks up a waitress

The movie Call Me By Your Name is about a 24 year old who has a gay affair with a 17 year old minor.

The movie called The Shape of Water is about a cleaning woman in a secret government laboratory who takes the creature from the black lagoon home and has sex in the bathtub. Is that what Arnold Schwarzenegger was thinking when he fathered a child from his cleaning lady? Not so good guys! Work place sex is a no no.

So, let’s make some movies where men are gentlemen and let the women make the first move for a change for concentual sex and romance.