It seems that anything goes these
days. Who are we to judge others when
quite often we can’t even look in the mirror
and be comfortable with what we see?
No matter who we are or what we do, we all seek comfort and happiness and most of all self-esteem. How we achieve that feeling of greatness has
changed for many and in some circles have become socially acceptable. I am blah blah blahing today about the
epidemic of sugar babies and their sugar daddies. Young beautiful girls need
money and older men have plenty of money and need to feel
younger again.
It is love and money taken to
extremes. Is stunning younger women
paired with older men who pay their way a brilliant strategy or just a thinly veiled
form of prostitution? We all know that
ladies love to be spoiled. There are
clubs where people can mingle but with the click of a mouse, even a beautiful
college girl can be delivered to your door.
As long as you are not just paying for sex, it is legal. If you pay for the college or buy them cars
or apartments you have become a mentor of sorts helping someone to have a
better life. If consensual sex is added
to the formula, that is fine and is considered just a perk legally.
Now you could see a 60 year old
with a 20 year old and people understand. Go to any resort or vacation place
and it is easy to find a younger woman with
a great new boob job holding hands with an older man. She is extremely grateful whereas the older
wife would just treat a lovely vacation as something that is expected. The young woman loves sex and the older wife
has had enough of sex. Young women always need money and older men can provide that. Older men can provide the advice and education
that she can’t afford.
The men just want to have
fun. They want an attractive woman that
will make them look handsomer. Just
travel with him and have fun. Be around
him and keep him company. Being a sugarbaby can come with perks. It is not unusual for a man to drop $5000 a
month on his girl paying for perks like clothing. Remember you are paying for companionship and
not for sex alone. Spend hundreds of dollars on the young girl
and she looks fabulous. Spend hundreds
of dollars for clothes for the older wife and she is still an older woman with new
clothes on.
However, the big attraction to
being with a young woman is the wild abandonment of morals and ethics and good plentiful
sex. The young girls seem to get so many
perks, they don’t mind having sex with an older man. In fact, they may like the old school
attention of doors being held open for them and gentle politeness
from a previous era. Some older men are
lucky enough to just fall in love with a lovely young woman. Other men seek young woman through Internet
sites like Seeking Arrangement.com
The owner of this website makes
it clear that he is not promoting prostitution.
The courts have decreed that as long as the woman is being paid for
services other than sex such as companionship, the act does not classify as
prostitution. Who wrote that law? I bet it wasn’t somebody’s wife. Brandon Wade is the Founder and CEO of the
website and says that any one that uses the website simply
for sex in exchange for money is in violation of their terms of agreement. 90% of
the million and a half members of the site are sugardaddies. 10% are sugarbabies. Not all men are very wealthy and not all
girls expect all that much. A lot of it
is about relationships and companionship.
However many girls are in relationships with many men at the same time. I guess life is just complicated these days.
Some Mormon men
visit the site and claim that their relationships are nonsexual till marriage. The girls feel that it is a dream come true
to have someone care for them, give them money and not to expect much back in
return. Many girls feel that their lives
have been upgraded to a luxurious level that they would never be able to attain
through their own efforts. So do all men who
have become successful in life feel they have to go this route to have
excitement in their lives? Do all young
beautiful girls need to spend some older man’s money to
have a comfortable life? Of course the
answer is no to both questions. But as
in the case of Donald Sterling, the old man owner of the Basketball team , the Clippers,who was going out with a young
girl and gave her lavish gifts. while being married and no one commented on his sexual behavior. Society’s
outrage was not with his sexual habits but with his racial comments. Go figure.
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