Ever since the invention of
marriage, there has been infidelity. On the
hit TV show Scandal, even the president of the United States has an affair and
this season his wife is having one too. Is this a case of art imitating life? Some studies are showing a dramatic increase
of cheating among women in recent years. What is causing women to cheat? Could some
new web sites be giving women the courage to cheat on their husbands or on
their partners? When women cheat it is
often considered a scandal. When men
chest some people call it having an affair.
The actress Diane Lane cheated on her husband
Richard Gear and played the iconic adulteress in the movie called Unfaithful. But never has cheating been as accessible as it is today. Infidelity in anonymity is just a click away
on your computer. What is it that is
driving women now to cheat?
He says he is a happily married
man but he spends his time helping people to have the more perfect affair. Women are carrying on affairs with the men
they met on line for months often meeting them in bars,
hotel suites, homes and even traveling to other cities. Meeting many men can be like an addictive
drug. We all remember how euphoric it
was falling in love for the first time.
Meeting someone new for love for the first time can be equally exciting. But is society saying this is acceptable?
Advertising this type of behavior
openly on TV and radio is acceptable to all?
Obviously it is popular since Noel Bbiederman is a very rich man from
hooking people up on a web site.
A reporter wrote a book about her
own marriage where she and he were cheating. The book is called Vow” A Memoir of Marriage
by Wendy Plump. She and her husband are now divorced. After she wrote the book she received many
letters from women and men and realized that cheating is much more common than she
ever thought before. So is it a way of life
or is it a scandal? Where are we now in
terms of relationships and marriage?
Statistics show that 21% of married men have had an affair compared to
15% of married women who have had an affair.
That number for women has spiked in the last two decades; up 40%.
According to data
on Ashley Madison.com a woman cheats during
stressful times in her life often just before turning 40 years old. Women cheat because they feel they are
missing something. Men cheat just because they
want to have an affair. It is less
because of an emotional thing. In both
cases the effects of both are call you will know devastating and things
usually end up in divorce. Jim Carroll, the co-founder of Marriage Boot camp, a reality
show on the WE Channel said people should work through their problems
before you look to infidelity for solutions. Does that mean that we should say
Good Bye to your Internet lover?
So tell your man to get rid of his blondie and you get rid of your internet lover and save your marriage. your family.
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